Being unhappy is the first step to becoming happy. 


Unhappiness is a type of human emotion. Just like all other emotions, it is not always a bad thing if it’s only a temporary or transitional state. What is bad is prolonging the changes that need to be made which results a permanent state. In fact, being unhappy is your first step to happiness. It is the ultimate driver to get out of your current state of being to achieve more desired results. It’s unrealistic to be happy all the time because if you care about yourself you'd want to change for the better. Sometimes change might not feel like a pleasant experience at the moment. 

If you are constantly trying to improve yourself these emotions of happiness and unhappiness can be a continuous cycle until you reach mastery. You are unhappy because you detect something that is not going right. You might not know exactly what and how to fix it yet but you are consciously and unconsciously trying to make it better. The more self-aware you become the more “flaws” you will notice about yourself. Just because you notice more of your flaws it doesn’t mean you have more issues. It just means you are more aware of them. At some point there will be more happy moments than unhappy moments because there will be less problems to work on. Oftentimes people are unhappy about their unhappiness, but once you understand this emotional cycle you will actually be happier because you begin to accept the unhappiness as part of the process of becoming happy.

​- Feelasoulphy

​Change your mindset from 

Past = Regrets
Present = Pain
Future = Worries 

To

Past = Lessons learned
Present = Lessons being learned
Future = Lessons will be learned 

And watch your life changes. 

- Feelasoulphy

Fear based decisions will only produce more fear for you, but love based decisions will yield more love back to you. Which will you choose?

​- Feelasoulphy 

You know why some of the wealthiest people in the world cannot buy happiness all the time? Because what makes the poor angry also makes the rich angry, what makes the poor sad also makes the rich sad, same as for jealousy, anxiousness, fear, pain, worry, insecurity, etc. Internally, we are the same regardless how different we look from the outside. Wealth is not only measured by the amount of money we have but also the wisdoms from within. 

- Feelasoulphy

The ego never desires true happiness for you because it doesn’t comprehend what it is. The ego only wants to be high from one moment to the next so it has you addicted to the feeling. If you are seeking for long lasting true happiness, ask your heart. It knows exactly where it is. 

​- Feelasoulphy