 The Flower Fields, Calsbad, California, USA The Spiritual Purpose Behind Our Shifting Passions, Identities, and Paths Have you ever looked back at your life and wondered, “Who was I back then?” Maybe you went through a spiritual phase, a fitness phase, a minimalist phase, a business-building phase, or even a wild-and-free phase. And now, you’re in an entirely different chapter — with different passions, desires, and even a different sense of self. You’re not flaky. You’re evolving. You’re not lost. You’re learning. You’re not inconsistent. You’re in a phase — and that’s not only normal, it’s necessary. Phases Are How the Soul Grows From a spiritual lens, our souls incarnate with a plan — not a rigid blueprint, but a flexible curriculum. The soul doesn’t want sameness, it wants expansion. And how do we expand? Through experience. Each phase you’ve been through — no matter how random or unrelated it seemed at the time — held a piece of your puzzle. Some taught you discipline. Others cracked your heart open. Some helped you build, while others taught you how to let go. From the soul’s perspective, there’s no such thing as “wasted time.” Only lessons. The Psychology of Phases: You’re Wired to Shift Neurologically speaking, we’re not meant to stay in one mode of operation forever. The human brain is shaped by neuroplasticity, which means it constantly adapts, rewires, and reshapes itself based on what you focus on. When you go through a phase, you’re literally forming new neural pathways. You’re reprogramming your mind. This isn’t failure — it’s progress. Yes, society often glorifies “consistency” and “persistence,” but it forgets that adaptability is just as powerful a form of intelligence. The oak tree is sturdy, but the bamboo survives the storm. When to Shift, When to Stay Here’s the part many people get stuck on — how do you know when it’s time to move on, and when you’re just bored or avoiding something uncomfortable? True soul-guided shifts feel expansive, even if they’re scary. Avoidant shifts feel relieving at first but leave you feeling hollow. Some things are meant to be completed. They require your full presence and persistence — not because you’re “supposed to stick with it,” but because there’s a deep soul lesson embedded in the completion, not the escape. The Gift of Many Selves You are not here to be one fixed character your whole life. You’re a multidimensional being having a multidimensional experience. The version of you who loved painting at 20, the one who dove into meditation at 30, and the one now craving simplicity and nature — they’re all you. None of them were wrong or off-path. They were stepping stones. They were phases. They were part of the unfolding. Imagine doing only one thing your entire life — thinking the same, acting the same, dressing the same, believing the same. That’s not consistency. That’s stagnation. The river flows because it moves. A Reminder for the Multi-Passionate Souls So if you’ve ever been made to feel like you “change too much,” here’s your permission slip: You’re not meant to stay the same. You’re meant to stay true. And “true” will look different depending on the season of your soul. The world needs stable builders and daring shapeshifters. We need the ones who master one path for 40 years — and the ones who master the art of reinvention every 5. What matters most is that you’re conscious of your direction. Let your phases be sacred. Let your seasons be teachers. But also learn to listen: Which ones are calling you to finish the lesson? And which ones are whispering: It’s time to begin again? Final Thought: Phases Are Not Detours They’re the journey itself. Just make sure you’re not jumping ship because of discomfort… And you’re not staying out of fear of change. Complete what you came to complete. And when it’s done — don’t be afraid to move on. Because the next phase might just be the one that unlocks everything.
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 …and it still might not be good for you. I’ve noticed something strange about life — a pattern I can’t ignore: Almost everything I’ve ever wished for has eventually come true. Sometimes the wish was loud and public. Other times, it was a private whisper, known only to me. But over time, I’ve seen those desires manifest. And not all of them brought joy. People talk about the Law of Attraction, manifestation, vibration — and yes, there’s truth in those. But I want to share what I’ve learned through lived experience, not just ideas: The Psychology of Manifestation When we strongly desire something, we record it in the subconscious. That desire begins to steer our perception, attention, and decisions, even in our dreams — whether we’re aware of it or not. Let’s say I want a BMW M4. Once that desire locks in, every financial move, every opportunity I notice, is filtered through the question: “Will this get me closer to that car?” And eventually… I get it. Not through magic, but through momentum — built from consistent, subconscious alignment. This is how visualization works. It doesn’t bend the universe; it bends you — until your actions match your vision. But here’s the twist… When What You Want Isn’t What You Need I got the car. It was sleek, fast, thrilling. But the more I drove it, the more I could feel something stirring beneath the surface: “If you keep driving like this, something bad is going to happen.” I hadn’t crashed — but I could see the crash in the distance, like a premonition I was creating through habit. And that’s when I had this realization: Just because you get what you want… Doesn’t mean it’s good for you. It’s not the car’s fault. It’s mine. The desire was mine. The reckless energy it activated was already inside me — the car just amplified it. So eventually, I let it go. I traded it in for something more grounded — a hybrid RAV4. Not as fast, but more aligned with the version of me I was becoming — calmer, more conscious, more content. Wanting Wisely Here’s what I’ve learned: The real problem isn’t that we get what we want. The deeper problem is what we want is often based on who we currently are — not who we’re meant to become. Our desires come from our level of consciousness. And as we grow, evolve, and awaken… our desires change. Some of them fall away completely. What once felt like a need becomes laughable. What once felt like success now feels like noise. What once sparkled with temptation now looks hollow. This is the silent gift of spiritual growth: You stop chasing things that no longer match your energy. Desire Isn’t the Enemy — But It Must Be Refined The work is not to suppress desire. The work is to discern it.
Desires born of ego will often be granted — not as rewards, but as lessons. Desires born of awareness tend to arrive with peace — not chaos. The Chinese Farmer Parable There’s a Taoist story I love: A farmer’s son finds a wild horse. The neighbors say, “How lucky!” The farmer replies, “Maybe yes, maybe no.” Later, the son breaks his leg riding the horse. The neighbors say, “How terrible!” The farmer replies again, “Maybe yes, maybe no.” Then war breaks out, and all able young men are drafted — except the son with the broken leg. What looked like a blessing became a curse. What looked like a curse became a blessing. Only time — and consciousness — reveals what’s truly good for us. Final Reflection: Awareness, Desire, Destiny Sometimes we get what we want. Sometimes it hurts. But that hurt is often what wakes us up — and teaches us what we really need. And sometimes, as you evolve, your desires dissolve. You no longer want more — you want less noise. You no longer chase meaning — you embody it. You no longer dream of power — you rest in peace. When your consciousness expands, your desires refine. And eventually, you stop manifesting from craving… And start living from clarity. Closing Thought: Be careful what you wish for — not because you won’t get it, but because you will. And when you do, it will reveal something about you: Who you are. What you value. And whether you’re ready for what you asked for. The real evolution isn’t just getting what you want… It’s becoming someone who only wants what is true.  Most people never question the game they’re playing. Money. Work. Consume. Repeat. But do you know the rules? Do you know who wrote them? 1. A Brief History of Money Money didn’t start as some divine truth. It was a human invention. Once upon a time, we bartered. Kings realized they could mint coins and demand taxes in those coins. Now people had to work for the king’s money just to avoid punishment. The same system has been reinforced by us perpetually. Fast forward: Governments print fiat currency. They decide the supply by setting the price of money itself—interest rates—through the Federal Reserve. They demand you pay taxes in their currency. You work your whole life for paper they print at will. That’s the original trick. And it still works. 2. How Taxes Really Work (The $1 Million Example) You think you earn $1 million? Watch the system take its cut over and over: Earn it → ~50% income tax(Fed and CA) → $500,000 left. Spend it → ~9% sales tax → ~$45,000 more gone. Seller earns it → ~50% tax on profit → ~$200,000 more gone. Seller spends → more sales tax. Save and invest? → capital gains, dividends and interests taxed. Buy property? → property tax every year. Die? → estate tax on what’s left. Here's a simple math without the rest of taxes.
Economic terms: tax cascading, double taxation, tax drag. Same money. Taxed again and again. Forever. 3. The Psychology of the Game They know your desires: Security Status Power Belonging They know your fears: Poverty Exclusion Failure Advertising, social pressure—they keep you playing. You’re told you’re a winner if you have more. More than your neighbor. More than last year. But the house always wins. 4. The Damage It Causes This game costs us more than taxes:
We forgot what wealth really is. 5. The Benefits of the System It’s not all evil. Let’s be honest. Social stability. Motivation to work. Financial responsibility. Technological advancement. Medicine, infrastructure, communication. Food and shelter. Without some system, we’d be living in chaos. But don’t confuse useful with just. Don’t confuse beneficial with fair. 6. How to Avoid Getting Played Here’s the truth: You don’t have to reject the game. You just have to know you’re playing. Learn the rules. Become aware: it’s designed to keep you working/playing. Decide when enough is enough. Don’t let money own you. Make it work for you. Don’t choose money over love, relationships, kindness. Find your true purpose beyond accumulation. Serve others without asking for money. Minimize your taxes legally. Build income streams that don’t kill you. Become heart-centered instead of money-centered. Work on yourself so you can tame your fears and desires which makes you less prone to others' control and manipulation. Realize your purpose is not to hoard fake paper. Wake up. See the truth. Don’t kill yourself—or others—for money. Final Words Play the game. But don’t get played. Life is not about winning in someone else’s casino. Life is about remembering who you are. What you love. What you stand for. And living it—fully, freely, consciously.  Sunset in San Jose del Cabo, Mexico Seeking greater happiness? Then... Desire that nothing differs from this very moment. Desire that no one deviates from their true selves, while continually inspiring through positive actions. Desire that your circumstances mirror this present state, yet grasp the lessons and implement actions to shape your future. Such is the influence of the "What is." - Feelasoulphy  Thank you for not giving me what I wanted in those moments because you knew they were not my soul’s desires. Thank you for making me feel disappointed, heart broken, angry, jealous, depressed, embarrassed. Through them you prepare me for what I truly want out of this life! - FeelaSoulphy |
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