Insecurity and Jealousy

Insecurity leads to jealousy. Jealousy leads to more insecurity and more jealousy.

Until you find the root of this problem and face it head on you will always be incapable of keeping a confident partner no matter how much they love you. Your partner will eventually see your insecurities and leave you for someone else. This is because they are confident and they believe they are capable of finding someone they truly deserve. They have worked hard on their confidence to prepare for someone that’s also worked on themselves to prepare for them. If you are still insecure and have the tendency to be jealous it’s time to start working on yourself, and NOT blaming anyone else. If you are still single, I promise you that once YOU are ready, your true soulmate will appear. BE the person you want to be with unless you desire someone that’s also insecure and jealous.

In addition, when your insecurity attacks someone else it’s a clear sign that you are still not confident about something. YOU are allowing and giving others the power to threaten you. And you don’t believe you can satisfy your partner’s needs due to your own incompetence. Instead of attacking others, you should see what YOU need to improve to get to a place that you no longer fear of losing your partner to someone else because you know what you have to offer. If your partner doesn’t recognize your qualities it may mean they are not ready for you or they are not the right fit and perhaps someone else will appreciate your qualities who is ready for you. Be aware that your insecurity will also try to control and manipulate your partner to satisfy your own ego. Don’t use your partner or anyone else as a tool to feed your ego. It’s not fair to them.  

​- FeelaSoulphy